Most of my experiences
with men were with collegues whom I felt were not really in sync with my
particular views on the status of females in society. Oftentimes
these differences resulted in what were clearly restrictions on my freedom
to express my viewpoint in my work. During the same time, my interests
in Female Domination were a vital part of my everyday interests and activity.
There was a real conflict between the two. What I needed was a way
to be of help to others, yet maintain my own personal values and opinions
while doing so.
It was about this time that
I was speaking to a woman I had met online, who happened to be a therapist.
We developed a good relationship, sharing experiences and discussing issues
that were of interest to both of us. It was a matter of time before
we had become close friends. It was during one of our discussions
online that I had expressed my frustration with the men at work.
She offered an innocent suggestion that I look into becoming a chat host
on ifriends. I did go to their site and check it out.
At first, I couldn't figure
out why she had suggested I look into this. It was a site that featured
women of all types who make themselves available to chat with male visitors
and subscribers who can see them live on a video cam. But, as I browsed
through the ifriends site, I began to see the possibilities. After
all, I could still offer counseling and information to people, chat with
them, and do it as myself, a naturally-dominant woman. I was interested
in trying it, and that is just what I set out to do.
Here's what I've done so
far:
First, you can go to my fanclub
homepage at:
Once there, simply scroll
down to ifriends Profile Features. You will find some of the things
that I offer. For instance, you can view my profile, read my greeting,
click on Chathost Archives to read stories and personal experiences of
mine, Now that section is for Members Only, but next to it
is a section for Guests, which is Free to All. The Guest Section
contains discussions of topics relating to Female Domination. Everyone
is able to participate, respond to messages, and post messages of your
own.
Most importantly, there is
a place where you can actually set a time when you can chat live with me
and see me at the same time on your computer screen, and if you have a
webcam, I can see you as well. This has made it possible for me to
engage in actual video training of submissives with instant feedback and
full participation.
But I think that what is
most interesting is that you can actually have the opportunity to see me
and chat with me at length, ask me questions and get to know me in a safe
and intimate format so that you are able to determine if you think I am
the right Dominant to pursue further. It also allows me to spend
time talking with prospective submissives and get to know something about
them.
