Advice by Hunter Truelove...
you can help me. I am in love with my doctor. Iíve been seeing
him professionally for over ten years. Hunter, this is really getting
to be a problem for me. I canít stop thinking about him, and my husband
is becoming suspicious. I have hinted to the doctor that I have a
special feeling for him. Heís so kind. But heís married.
And now he tells me that heís going to retire because the health care industy
has changed so much. Help! Iím going to camp out in my car
down the street from his house. What do you advise?
I would not camp out at his house! Many women have had these feelings
toward their Doctor. They are very special people. Often they hold
the power of life and death, and to many people that is very attractive.
Maybe it would be best to find another doctor.,make it a woman if you can.
I know in your heart that a new one will not be the same at first. But
just think of the good thngs that you got out of knowing this person and
just put this in a special place in your heart. And if you happen
to pass him and his family just be happy and wish him the best. There
is always someone to help you and try not to get to get so close to the
new one. I hope this will help. Thanks for writing, Hunter.
a 31 year old mother of two. I love my husband very much, and we
have a wonderful homelife. But thereís one problem: I still
have feelings for a previous love, ďJackĒ. We were kept apart by
my Father who didnít approve because no one was good enough for his daughter.
He had Jack beat up, and kept us seperated. I tried to push the old
feelings away, but they keep coming back. My husband is a wonderful
provider, and a great father to our girls. I ache inside,but I canít
desert my family for a love that may never be. The only problem is,
I saw him down the street this morning. Itís starting all over again.
I hope you can remember that at one time or another we all had that
type of love. Maybe at the beach when you just got out of high school,
and you knew that the good looking guy on the motorcycle was the one for
you. We all have been there but you are a very lucky woman. You have
a man that cares for you and takes care of you and your daughters. Thatís
hard to find in this day and time. So look at what you have now.
I believe your Father was a very smart man. As far as ďJackĒ is concerned,
stay away from him! Youíve got nothing to gain, and everything to
lose. Youíre a lucky woman to have a good man and a Father who took
the time to help this happen. I hope this helps. If not, good luck
in what you decide to do. But put your family first. Thanks for writing.
you have a problem that's getting the best of you, write me here.
Maybe we can work it out together. Take care, Love Hunter..