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Comments by The Changer

My Adoring Fans

You can consider this the second and final installment of my mini-series “ChangerMail: A Tribute to My Fans”.  Since I’ve received very little mail from my readers (hint, hint), much of this is mail I’ve received in response to the Changer site.  I decided it was about time to shut up and let some of you do the talking, so I’ve left all the messages unedited (with the names removed) and have made very brief comments.  We will return to our usual wordy sarcasm next time.  Enjoy! 
The Changer
First, we’ll start with my favorite:
 
Loved your home page and your new article.  I also feel as though I am too much for men sometimes.  I get bored easily, and need to be
challenged.  It is just a new me, although the old me was basically the same person, just lurking under the surface.  I think that it is
great that young women these days are empowering themselves to be assertive.  I am 43 and I feel as though this is the best time of my life. 
I am wiser, more secure with myself, and my sexuality.  I am not a male basher, although I have met some that I wouldn't mind giving a good bashing!  Look forward to your new articles.  Thinking about writting one myself.   Keep it up girl!!
 
This next guy felt that when Shakespeare described us all as actors, Will appointed him director:
 
Danger! Danger!
 
Your path is fascinating and has theatrical potential, but is destined to
result in a severe identity crisis.
 
Direction: Pull back, Retain your center, Seek out what is strong and
enduring.
 
Now, this one was devastated when he discovered I was young enough to be his child:
 
Hello:
found your web site.  What a hoot!   If this is true; which I think it is.
You are doing good!   Have you ever dated a guy that is married or otherwise taken.   Just to see?
 
Just for your info I am 47 yo very straight male, non-smoker and drinker, a nudist, also a longtime swinger (but not with lady I am with now) and have a very good job.  I also have been married 3 times and played house a couple of times too!
 
Keep up the good work on the web site!
 
This one had me putting up pictures of Jason Alexander next to my face in the mirror for days:
 
I loved your tongue-in-cheek attitude...or at least I hope it was
tongue-in-cheek!
Has anyone ever mentioned that you could be George Costanza's sister? 
Hmmmmm....
 
 
I wasn’t sure whether to be insulted that he finds me so unattractive or flattered that someone found the site so interesting as to refer it to a friend:
 
Please tell me that you aren't serious... I just visited your home pages and I think that you really need to get help. Also the fact that you are the ugliest creature I've ever seen helps, cause I don't believe that
anyone could actually feel even mildly attracted to you... anyhow good luck, and don't take any of the things I said too personally cause I
really couldn't resist after a friend gave me your homepage address and I read those ridiculous claims of yours.
 
This one may have a point or two, but I believe he has a tad too much free time.
 
Ms. Changer,
 
Okay, I for one, am amused. Your tales of romantic woe (or WHOA!) are somewhat enlightening. I cannot find though, based on your
retelling of events, that you are such a bitch or so harsh that you do, in fact, "change" men. Certainly, you bear some responsibility for
the outcome of these relationships, but have you ever considered that the problem may be in the raw materials?
 
That is to say, maybe you just need a sturdier fella.
 
Where do you gather these boys? They clearly do represent a strange cross section of male society, but nothing like the men that I call friends. Okay, some are louses, but most are just decent guys. Have you ever considered that the problem may be in the location in which
you gather raw materials?
 
That is to say, maybe you need to look elsewhere.
 
It seems to me that you could escape your illicit alter-ego known as "The Changer" if you would escape from the old methods.
Sometimes, the only way to achieve true success in the face of failure is to retreat from the unsuccessful paths and invest in or invent new ones.
 
That is to say, don't go in expecting the worst.
 
In any event, your home on the internet seems to be of solid design, and the content of your site is mostly pretty funny. Sad, but
funny nonetheless. If one cannot laugh at the absurdity in one's own life, then one must be the subject of ridicule from those that can.
 
That is to say, I am still amused. Thanks for an amusing moment, and keep up the "good" work.
 
That is to say, perhaps this email is a bit wordy for a first email to a complete stranger.
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